Boring Weekend
Friday, August 17, 2007
I am so glad today is Friday. Work this week had really dragged on and on. I don't have enough work to really keep me busy but at the same time I can't leave early or when I am done with my work since I need that paycheck.
School starts next Wednesday for me and I am not really ready for it. I only had a 2 week break in between summer and fall. I need just a little more time. I still need to go shopping for school supplies, which isn't really that much but still.
This weekend I have no plans!! I am going to hang out and relax. I have my angel boy this weekend. Usually his dad picks him up on Fridays and keeps him til Sunday night. But I guess he has plans to go out this weekend so he asked me to keep him. Of course I will. When I am in school it's kinda nice to get a break from him so that I can do my homework on the weekends. But I miss him so much. It sucks that when he's with me, it's during the week, how fun is that. We have to get up early and go to school/work all day. Go home eat dinner, take a bath, play for a little bit, go to bed just to wake up and do it all over again the next day. So I am excited I have him this weekend.
I haven't talked to Paige in a couple days. I know she still thinks that I am mad at her, but I'm not. I just really don't have a whole lot to say. My life has really been boring this week. Same shit different day.
My mom's birthday was yesterday. I did the same shit she did to me on mine, I text her. Can you believe that she text me to tell me happy birthday. She couldn't call. I am your oldest child, who happens to be raising your youngest child and you couldn't pick up a freaking phone. She lives 20 minutes away! This women is something else, I tell you. I am going to tell you guys how I ended up raising my sister, but it's a long story so maybe this weekend I can get around to writing about it.
Adam's sister is pregnant. She is a year younger than me and this is her first child. See she found out in January, and she had only been dating her boyfriend, now husband for like 3 or 4 weeks. Now, I can not talk about that, I have the same story minus the marriage(story another day). So in April they got married. I thought this was all a little strange but who the hell am I to judge anyone, nobody. So I was asked to be a bridesmaid. Because I don't really talk to her much I thought this was really weird, but I said yes. I want his family to like me, and for the most part I think they do. So we do the wedding thing, it turned out really nice. She was with me when I started having my miscarriage, she took me to the hospital. When I found out for sure that's what had happened she called to make sure that I was alright. I haven't heard from her since and that was the beginning of June. Now we have never really talked all that much and I know that she is busy with being a new wife and almost new mommy. So Wednesday night Adam tells me that her baby shower is next sat. the 25th. Really?? Nice that I was not invited. Now I really don't care, I don't talk to the girl hardly ever, but I thought we were cool. I was good enough to be in your freakin wedding but not cool enough to go to your baby shower. Huh?
I decide to text her yesterday just to see if she's doing alright. She lets me know about this going away party for some friend of her's that is tonight. Offers to pay for a babysitter for angel boy since she really wants us to go. Funny she never mentions her baby shower. Needless to say I am not going to this party. I kinda feel bad because I think Adam wanted to go. But at the same time, you tell me the day before, I haven't talk to you in 2 months, and you don't invite me to your baby shower. Plus I don't know any of these people. I think not!! Adam doesn't want to go that bad as he doesn't know these people either but he is worried she is going to get mad because she supposedly invites us to shit but we never go. How about the damn baby shower. Sorry if I seem bitter but I guess it kinda hurt my feelings. I'll get over it though. I should go buy her a present just to be the nice one. What are your thoughts?
Anyway I hope you guys have a great weekend! I will try and post the story of the ever famous mother this weekend!!
August 17, 2007 at 12:37 PM
I think you should go to the party the worst that could happen is you and hubby have a night out without the kids and do buy her baby a gift, a nice one just to show her that you care even though she apparently doesnt...
August 17, 2007 at 2:36 PM
pcs,
thanks for the advice. I don't know if I will end up going tonight, but I have decided to go ahead and buy her a present. I need to at least try and be nice, she is my future sister in law.